Sunday, April 21, 2013

An Open Letter to Parents

Dear Parents,

     The one thing I can say is to always be there for your children. I don't intend for that to be taken as a reason to constantly hover over your children and watch their every move. I mean to always provide guidance and support for your children whenever they need it. They need to know that you will be there for them and help them when they it is needed.
     Another thing I can say is to let your kids grow up. That may seem in contrast to what I just previously said, but they have to grow up and learn things for themselves. However, you are still their parents. Let them explore and grow, but be there to provide guidance. Let your kids know that they can always come to you. Again, just always be there for them. If something is clearly wrong, do not just ignore it. But don't hound them about it either. Just ask your child if something is wrong. He or she will tell you if something is seriously wrong when they are ready to.
     One last thing I have noticed with some other parents. I've realized that the strictest parents have the kids who sneak around the most. Please, please don't be too strict with your children. That is why they feel the need to sneak around because they cannot talk to you about anything without the fear of getting into trouble. I think being open with your children is much better than being very strict with them. The kids won't feel the need to hide everything regardless if it is bad or not.

I'm just saying that parents should be there for their children. The kids will come to eventually appreciate it.


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